Hola, I am Jan 🙂
Everything is about balance, I look young, but I am an old soul.
My old soul brought me to writing.
Check out below:
1. About me
2. About my writings
3. About you
1. About me
Life is about living your dreams. Dreaming reality means that you are visualizing your dreams in such a vital, real way, that they just have to come true. When I was 12 years old, at night I laid in bed and listened to Juanes. I saw my grown-up self, living in Barcelona.
After 23 years in Bochum, Germany I fulfilled my dreamed reality and moved to Barcelona. First I finished my university, then I got a job, and now I am working to become a writer.
‘I dream reality.’
I can tell you two things from experience: living your dreams is the best thing in life; the second best and almost as good is working daily to achieve it.
Now, as I do both, I could not be happier or feel more fulfilled. For you, I wish the same! I would be thrilled if I could give you a helping hand to achieve that. (Check out the books and videos that inspired and helped me the most)
The majority of successful people who reached their dreams went earlier in their lives through difficulties, problems, hardships, and crises. These happenings may be financial problems, suffering from a disease, social pain through rejection or separation, the death of a loved one – and anything else that a person devastates.
‘When you are at the bottom, you just can go in one direction – up’
The divorce of my parents combined with the breakup with the girl I loved and being dropped by my best friend when I most needed him, made me feel miserable and as if everything that gave me stability got lost. I was alone. I was on my own – a lot.
But I found myself when the rest got lost and learned that only I can reach my dreams and that I have to take care of myself first.
‘I found myself when the rest got lost.’
Feeling betrayed, feeling lost, feeling alone, feeling devastated – that was terrible. I will be honest with you: I drank a lot of alcohol and did some dumb shit. I treated people that I loved awful. I was hurt and hurt myself and the people around me.
In hindsight, however, going through all of that was the best that could happen to me. I was forced to spend time on my own what made me finding myself. I got more focused on myself and my dreams and started to work on them daily by reading, watching videos, listening to podcasts and doing online courses.
‘The worst that happens to you is often in hindsight the best.’